consolidating debt into a home loan - Dating someone who is separated but not divorced
We both have two kids in middle school: a girl and a boy. So, for all intents and purposes, it's like they're divorced, they just haven't done the paperwork. She says dating him is wrong because he’s still a married man. Dear In Love, I realize this happens all the time, but I think misrepresenting one’s marital status on a dating site raises legitimate questions about a person’s veracity. The bigger issue here is not that Ben said he was divorced on OKCupid, it’s that he is in fact still married. Ever since she left him, he's paid for his household expenses, she's paid for hers, and they coparent their kids without any drama.If you’re dating in the hopes of finding someone to spend your life with, then you definitely want to know as much as possible about what’s going on between them and their ex and where your relationship stands in the process.2. Dating someone who is in the midst of a divorce is quite different than dating someone who just isn’t “sharing an address with someone.”3.
Trust your inner wisdom on this one: you are at risk of giving your heart away to a man who is still married to another woman.
And falling in love with a married man is like nicking away at your heart with your own knife.
I asked him why he had not gotten a divorce yet, and he said he was waiting for his ex-wife to make that decision.
He thought that would be less painful for her if she made it.
That being said, it will be expected that you at least act "father like." How this turns out will more than likely depend on what type of man the father is as well as the age of the kids, and more than likely their gender.